The He Man
I was writing a list on what do women secretly want from her Boyfriend/Husband/Partner and thoughts came pouring. We women like to be heard, loved, respected, cared, craved, protected, pampered, trusted and cherished. We have a strong mind, so strong that it confuses us from time to time. We evolve faster than the cells on our body and hence, what we loved yesterday may not be as exciting today.
We love ourselves and yet we hate some parts of us on certain days when we look in the mirror. We want our man to be like our dad and yet we argue with our Dad all the time. We love our Mom's but are secretly scared of becoming her. We want our man to cuddle us, go shopping with us, share our passion as we share his passion and yet we want him to give us space, from time to time.
I really think that God has made a right match for everyone. We do meet some wrong frogs in the quest of finding our prince. Lucky are those women who find a man who understands them, make them feel proud of themselves and love them like they deserve all the happiness and abundance in this universe.
If you find a man that allows you to be who you are, he’s a keeper. a man that doesn't constantly call u every-time when you’re with the girls or guys. Who allows you to have fun, breathe, and be free. He waits until you tell him stories that happened the night before. He doesn't judge, and he doesn't argue unnecessarily. He trust you even though he knew every guys out there will try to hit on you. He understands you. He gives you advise only when he think it is important and deeply trusts your ability, even at a time when you fail to notice your merits. He may not be there to congratulate you in person at your highest but he is there hand in hand at your worst. He is not your Dad, nor just a Boyfriend. He is your other half, that part of the puzzle that makes you complete. Your fit, customized for you, by god above. He is there for you, by your side holding you, loving you listening to you, making you laugh, letting you cry on his shoulder and giving you the best this world has to offer. Just do not let him go..
I guess, I have found him.
Thank you God!
M
We love ourselves and yet we hate some parts of us on certain days when we look in the mirror. We want our man to be like our dad and yet we argue with our Dad all the time. We love our Mom's but are secretly scared of becoming her. We want our man to cuddle us, go shopping with us, share our passion as we share his passion and yet we want him to give us space, from time to time.
I really think that God has made a right match for everyone. We do meet some wrong frogs in the quest of finding our prince. Lucky are those women who find a man who understands them, make them feel proud of themselves and love them like they deserve all the happiness and abundance in this universe.
If you find a man that allows you to be who you are, he’s a keeper. a man that doesn't constantly call u every-time when you’re with the girls or guys. Who allows you to have fun, breathe, and be free. He waits until you tell him stories that happened the night before. He doesn't judge, and he doesn't argue unnecessarily. He trust you even though he knew every guys out there will try to hit on you. He understands you. He gives you advise only when he think it is important and deeply trusts your ability, even at a time when you fail to notice your merits. He may not be there to congratulate you in person at your highest but he is there hand in hand at your worst. He is not your Dad, nor just a Boyfriend. He is your other half, that part of the puzzle that makes you complete. Your fit, customized for you, by god above. He is there for you, by your side holding you, loving you listening to you, making you laugh, letting you cry on his shoulder and giving you the best this world has to offer. Just do not let him go..
I guess, I have found him.
Thank you God!
M
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