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Ever eaten food with someone else feeding you holding the spoon.. No no, not as a kid but in the recent past? One likes the attention, the love, the effort someone else is taking to feed you with love. You like it for sometime, a few morsels, may be one whole supper but you get the best satisfaction eating out of your own hands..right? That’s how life is. If you give the strings of your life in someone else’s hand , you may enjoy the dance for a few days, but soon you will miss your walk, your rhythm and your dance. Many time in our lives we knowingly or unknowingly give our strings in the hand of someone else, and then later when they don’t move us on the rhythm of our heart we complain, resist and even suffer. Worse, we blame them for mis-using us! Loving someone or being with someone cannot be confused with owning that person. You can be yourself, you have the right to be yourself and you can still belong (and not own or be owned) to someone. Respect your par...